日中関係

i spent much time looking the words on BBS and news sites like yomiuri in japan and niinami in china.
i am very diaspointed that every site is full of lies and sicked words. in fact, both chinese and japenese are cheatted by their media and their goverment.i know japanese blamed chinese for the matter occured in china's northwest university. i also believe the japanese student is not aware why his programme expressing frendship would let the chinese angry. it's the culture difference.But many chinese don't think so.because they new little about japan.they only remmeber the bad news of the japan from internet they are cheated by the media,it's very pitty. and in Japan situation is also the same.nobody thinks the faults of himself and just blame the other .we need communication, otherwise i am afraid it will go to horrible war